

Anthony Spark
12/17/2025
Most people arenât stuck because theyâre afraid.
Theyâre stuck because theyâre waiting for permission that never comes.
They tell themselves theyâre âgetting ready.â
Learning. Healing. Thinking. Planning.
But readiness is not a state you arrive at.
Itâs a decision you make under imperfect conditions.
Hereâs the uncomfortable part:
If youâre still preparing, itâs usually because action would force you to admit something about yourself.
Action reveals priorities.
Action collapses stories.
Action removes ambiguity.
And ambiguity is comfortable.
You donât delay because you donât know enough.
You delay because knowing would require choosing.
At some point, âgetting readyâ stops being wisdom and becomes a socially acceptable form of avoidance.
The question isnât what else you need to learn.
Itâs what youâre protecting by not acting.

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